how to discover the traumas and beliefs holding you back... AI prompt included
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Mornin, it's 4 PM here, listening to Sting, writing this post
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It might be one of the most important posts i've written in the last couple of years
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... because if you're not where you want to be in life, business, health, or any domain
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This will change that and set you on the right path.
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Traumas and limiting beliefs are scary, not because of the devastating impact they have on your life...
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But, because you're not aware of them.
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You live with them your entire life, "thinking" that you're making the right decision, where in reality, you're repeating the same cycles
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Again, and again... for years.
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They show up in how you think
... how you behave
... Your decisions
... Your "intuition"
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They rule your life.
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Here's a personal example:
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My story goes a long way back, i'll spare you the details.
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What you need to know is that i grew up in a 3rd world country, in a divorced family
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With parents who worked day and night to put food on the table.
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A young kid without parents, i worked my way up to never feel alone again.
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At 16, started my first business selling clothes
At 18 an agency
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And for the past decade, i've been full-time online...
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I worked hard
(if you've ever been to my trainings or in my program, you know how deep i go, and how much energy I put into my work)
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But, no matter how much pushed... it was 1 step forward... 2 steps backwards.
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Kept on hitting the same income ceilings... I'm talking about the $12,000 days, followed by 2 dry months.
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Kept on seeing people who started in 2021, hit 7-figures, while I've been in the game since 2016, and still not there
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Something always felt off
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And things didn't really "click" for a while.
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I've had many blessings along the way... but, my gut always told me that this is not what we're supposed to be doing
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Energy felt off
Content didn't land
Offers that should sell didn't convert
Audience building was hard and gruesome work
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And i had a deep sense of resentment towards the business.
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And of course, no one could know why this was happening.
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No coach, no mentor, no employee, no advisor.
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Because my problem was never a strategy or system problem.
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Something always felt off, because...
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... I lived my entire life, building a business that helps people make money and gain back their freedom
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Because I had traumas from seeing my parents work day and night and barely make any money
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A decade of my life was spent, decisions were made, and work was done
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Without knowing that it was all because of 1 trauma.
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Once I became aware of it, all of the heaviness, hard work, and bad energy around the business just fell off
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And i have NEVER been clearer on who i am or what i should do
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Just from becoming aware of 1 trauma that was running my life.
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... I had 1 mentorship member whose need for approval from his father kept him playing safe for years, never being able to lead or make quick decisions.
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... Another member could never express himself fully, no matter how many content systems he's been given, because of a traumatic event he had with his parents not accepting him when he was younger
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... Another member making $120,000/month. Always found a way to sabotage his progress and fire great clients because of fears he held from his past
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I have a catalogue of stories
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But, the underlying truth does not change
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If you do not become aware of the stories in your head, the limitations you're living through, and the traumas that repeat themselves in your subconscious
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You'll be a slave to those... forever.
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So, the only question left is: how do we become aware of those?
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I personally found that coaches and therapists tend to be biased towards 1 method of exploration.
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They're not wrong... that's just how we operate as human beings.
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But, AI, is different.
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it doesn't have to be biased.
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On the contrary... if you prompt it properly, it will ask you questions that'll bend your mind and make you aware of the deepest stories.
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The only criterion to make it work is for you to be fully ready to answer some of the hardest questions you've ever faced in your life.
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But, the result is simply a life of freedom from the anchors of traumas and old stories.
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Up to you, you choose.
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​Access the prompts here​
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Use it. Sit with what comes up.
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Then hit reply and tell me what you found.
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Seriously, I read every reply.
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Something bigger is coming in the upcoming days.
Arnold
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P.S. If any of what I described up there sounds like you.... the effort without the breakthrough, the grinding without the click, the effort that's leading to burnout, the misalignment and overwhelm... Send me a message on Instagram, i have something for you.